These characteristics are indications of
masterful coaches. They are not listed in any particular order. They are
not necessary for coaching a study group, but are desirable and traits to
be emulated.
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1.
The
ability to inspire
2. Setting
higher standards
3. Honesty
an Integrity |
4.
Disciplined intensity
5. Forwarding
action
6. A
passion to help others learn, grow and perform |
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1. The Ability to Inspire |
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Where
does the ability to inspire come from? It comes when we dare to dream
about the possibility of a larger life where ordinary people like you and
I can make a difference. Think about a time in your life when you were
really inspired (or really inspirational). What was the source of the
inspiration? Was it your own desire to make a difference? Were you
willing to suffer the consequences in seeing the idea realized and still
keep going? |
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2. Setting Higher Standards |
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Whether we are
scientists, musicians, or business people, most of us strive for
excellence. The same thing applies to people who are masterful coaches.
The distinguishing factor is that they seek excellence by setting higher
standards not only for themselves, but also for others. Masterful coaches
are not only stern taskmasters with others but also with themselves. This
is often reflected in their willingness to take responsibility for
mistakes, for lack of results, and for downright failure. Has there ever
been a time when your coach pushed you beyond what you felt were your
limits, and you found that you could do more than you thought you could
do? Are you able to balance toughness and holding people to a higher
standard with compassion for what they have to go through to achieve it? |
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3. Honesty & Integrity |
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Masterful coaches hold
themselves to the highest standards of honesty and integrity, not just
because of expediency, but because these qualities really matter to them.
Integrity is the consistency between what the coach says and does-" doing
what you say you will do." Keeps track
of the paperwork.
Consistency is key. Honesty means not lying and having the highest
ethical standards. These words mean having a genuine commitment to the
success of the people you are coaching and then being completely honest
and forthright in all your communications with them. |
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4. Disciplined Intensity |
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Masterful coaches
elicit disciplined intensity using people's inner motivation rather than
relying on outside pressure. When people work with a masterful coach,
they are swept up by the "buzz" of purposeful activity that he or she
creates. One of the characteristics of discipline intensity is full
participation - you are giving one hundred percent, totally focused on the
task, and strangely unaware of yourself. |
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5. Forwarding Action |
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Masterful coaches love
action. Forwarding action means acting even when you are uncertain of the
outcome. It means building prototypes to see what you can learn, then
refining them and trying again. Like putting together a puzzle on a rainy
day, you're never sure where the pieces go; you just start making
connections. Some pieces fit together and some don't but eventually the
picture is complete. |
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6. A Passion to Help
Others Learn, Grow, and Perform |
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Masterful coaches have a burning desire to help others learn, grow,
and perform. They are highly perceptive in discerning the gap between who
people are today and their potential. They see leaders where others see
followers. |